Catching an Emotion Before It Decides for You
The feeling behind your unsent text started minutes earlier, with what a friend's empty chair seemed to say about you.
Founder of MindLAB Neuroscience and pioneer of Real-Time Neuroplasticity™. PhD Behavioral & Cognitive Neuroscience (NYU). Master's, Clinical & Business Psychology (Yale). Lecturer, Wharton. Author, The Dopamine Code (Simon & Schuster, June 2026).
The feeling behind your unsent text started minutes earlier, with what a friend's empty chair seemed to say about you.
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